
One of the results of this diagnosis
The Devoted Chaser
Chase, check, and wear yourself down
You make their mood your job.
When anxious, you text again, go to them, and check. On top of that, you cut your own plans and wishes for their sake. Of all four types, this is closest to what psychology calls codependency. One belief keeps it running: if I give enough, I'll be loved. The anxiety peaks on the night you notice that how much you give and how much you're loved don't line up.