
One of the results of this diagnosis
The Curt Minimalist
Too little, on reflex, at your own pace
Your blunder is 'too few words, read as cold.' You think you're being normal, but it comes off as brusque.
You don't pad your words; you answer reflexively, bare minimum. Frank and easy, with no flattery — but cutting explanations and pleasantries gets you read as 'cold' or 'are you mad?' You meant none of it. Inside: the truth about your 'curtness,' the moment of misreading, how to add one more line, and the types you click with — all of it.
All types
💥 The Runaway Blurter Too much, on impulse, at your own pace
🫶 The Overzealous Helper Too much, on impulse, all for others
📚 The Delayed Debater Too much, saved up, on your own logic
🌀 The Endless Preface Too much, saved up, tiptoeing around them
🧂 The Curt Minimalist Too little, on reflex, at your own pace
😅 The Reflexive 'I'm Fine' Too little, on reflex, all for others
🌫️ The Silent Treatment Too little, saved up, at your own pace
🫧 The Swallow-and-Regret Too little, saved up, tiptoeing around them